Refinishing Furniture in A Nutshell

It’s a somewhat common occurrence that our readers will have an old piece of furniture that they’re looking to have refinished. It may be a family heirloom, or perhaps an antique. Perhaps it’s just a well built piece of furniture that can use a new look. Maybe it’s even been damaged over the course of the years and it needs a bit of touch up.

No matter the scenario, if you’ve never refinished a piece of furniture before you might need some guidance as to how to get started. In this article we’re going to quickly provide you everything that you need to know to determine your course of action, gather your supplies, and get started with your project.

Step 1: Analyze the extent of the project

Not every piece of furniture that needs attention is going to need a full strip down and refinishing. You might be able to just apply a new coat of stain and be on your way. This will save you quite a bit of time and frustration, so if you can go this route and still get your desired outcome it’s highly recommended. This is most likely suitable for your situation if:

  • The piece that you want to refinish does not have a layer of clear coat.
  • The color you want to refinish it with is similar to the existing color.
  • There are no major stains that need to be removed prior to refinishing.

If all of these conditions are true, then you can just go ahead and apply a fresh coat of stain on the furniture and call it a day. It is recommended that you wipe down the piece thoroughly and ensure that the surfaces are clean and dry prior to applying the stain. You can optionally add a layer of clear coat when you’re finished to protect the piece further.

If your piece of furniture does not meet these criteria, then a more extensive staining procedure will be required.

Step 2: Remove the existing clear coat and stain

If your piece of furniture will require a more extensive refinishing, you’ll want to start by removing the existing finish. This is best done with paint stripper. Some people try to remove the finish by sanding which can work to some extent, but it will likely result in more labor and less desirable results.

Apply the paint stripper as instructed by the manufacturer and remove with a scraper once it’s finished working it’s magic. Make sure to properly dispose of any waste generated by the removal of the original finish.

Step 3: Assess the raw piece and fix any damage

By now you should have a raw piece of furniture. The best way to really see what needs to be addressed is to coat the piece with mineral spirits. This will show you what the furniture will look like with a new coat of stain.

Any deep scratches or gouges are best addressed now. You can try leaving a bead of water on the defect and see if the wood absorbs it and regains it’s original form. If not, you’ll want to fill the defect with wood putty and allow it to dry.

Next you’ll want to sand the entire piece so that it is nice and smooth before proceeding with the finish. Start with a medium grit sandpaper (say 200) until you’ve evened out the surface, then bump up to a fine grit to smooth the surface out nicely.

Step 4: Apply the new finish

With your furniture surface fully prepared you can go ahead and apply your stain. It’s best to use a cloth or a sponge as opposed to a paint brush, as you’ll be less likely to get streaking from the bristles. Often you’ll need at least two coats to get the fullness of your desired stain. Allow coats to dry in between applications so you can see how the color has taken.

When you’ve finished applying stain it’s up to you as to whether or not you want to apply clear coat. Generally it’s recommended as it will protect your furniture and preserve all of your hard work.

Once all said and done it is recommended to let the finish fully dry before putting it back into use. This will help the finish set properly and reduce the aromas from the materials used. Consult the manufacturer’s directions for appropriate drying times and conditions.

4 Books that Every Parent Should Read´╗┐

Every parent has their own different method of upbringing because each child is unique in their own way. Despite the many unique styles of teaching, parenthood comes with many lessons learned from trial and error, patience, and understanding how to unconditional love. Even the strongest parents need guidance sometimes. There are just some situations that can get out of hand if the issue is not solved properly. Often times, unresolved childhood issues will cause a domino effect of irreversible emotional turmoil that could cripple a child’s identity. From understanding the depths of extinguishing sibling rivalry to learning about tips on how to nurture a child’s developing mind, here are 4 books that every parent should read.

No-Drama Discipline: The Whole-Brain Way to Calm the Chaos and Nurture Your Child’s Developing Mind by Daniel J. Siegel

A child’s neurological development depends on the way a parent reacts to misbehavior. Children learn most of their behaviors from watching how their parents react and interact with everything. No-Drama Discipline covers effective tips and tricks on how to handle intense tantrums and take control of stressful situation without causing a scene. Mastering the skills taught in this book will nurture the child’s self-esteem and help build them up for success. Rather than constantly at war with the children, it is mentally and emotionally healthier to replace aggressive calming tactics with drama-free tactics. 

Siblings Without Rivalry: How to Help Your Children Live Together So You Can Live Too by Adele Faber, Elaine Mazlish

Healthy sibling relationships play a very important role in a child’s neurological development. Siblings spend a lot of time with each other during childhood. The moments spent together will drastically impact a child’s sense of self. Growing up with sibling rivalry will do more harm than good. No one ever wants to feel like they’re not good enough. No one wants to feel like everything is unfair. Faber and Mazlish address important tips on how to help siblings get along with each other in Siblings Without Rivalry. Removing the tension and disagreements will make room for growth, positivity, and great loving memories. 

Raising Your Spirited Child: A Guide for Parents Whose Child is More Intense, Sensitive, Perceptive, Persistent, and Energetic by Mary Sheedy Kurcinka

Each child is born with a different personality. Some are timid and gentle while others are exploding with an energetic spirit. Managing a spirited child many feel almost impossible and exhausting at times. Kurcinka shares that temperament is the cause for “strong-willed” and “difficult” children. Raising Your Spirited Child helps guide parents through the intense and sensitive moments with vivid examples, in-depth explanations about where this behavior stems from, and solutions to difficult situations. 

Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids: How to Stop Yelling and Start Connecting by Laura Markham 

This novel is the most important must-read book on this list. Many studies show that yelling at children damages their confidence and causes anxiety. Yelling installs fear and insecurity instead of promoting a sense of understanding and courage. Markham explains the consequences of constant yelling while illustrating the possibilities of parent-child connection in his novel, Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids. Markham highlights a refreshingly positive viewpoint of how misunderstandings can often lead to unnecessary conflict. It is important to keep in mind that children will make mistakes. How a parent reacts will influence their future behaviors. 

Taking time to dive into these wonderful must-read books will help many parents understand how to handle critical situations to prevent future conflict from occurring. What these novels have in common is that they all share many wonderful tips on how to endure difficult moments while offering an effective solution. Each author uniquely explains how to strengthen the parents relationship with their child without aggression and yelling. With this knowledge, parents will be able to build up their children for a brighter future filled with success by becoming the positive example in their child’s life.

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